Turning a friend into boy/gal friend

Its something which happens a lot with a individual. Maybe some people say its childish but its the fact that almost every girl/boy finds him/her self in this situation sooner or later: There is guy/gal you've been friends with for months, and you have developed a huge crush on him. You get along great, and you spend a lot of time together. Sometimes you think he's/she's into you; his/her teasing seems a little flirtatious, and he/she texts you a lot. You are interested in finding out if you can take the relationship beyond friendship, but how do you escape Friend Zone?

There are a lot of reasons why this might be awkward. You have probably listened to some of his relationship problems, and shared some of yours. You may have told him/her things that you wouldn't tell someone you had just started dating. There are some ways in which you may have accidentally made him/her think that you just want to be friends.

On the one hand, this is fantastic! He/she already knows you, and knows a lot of the weird stuff that it would usually take you a long time to share with a boy/gal friend. If this works, it could work really, really well. Here are a few ways you might start hinting that you want to be more than friends:

Be flirtatious. You already have the playful teasing thing going. Be a little more coy. Draw him/her in and make him/her think. You will be surprised how much you can communicate with your eyes.

Be yourself. As much as you want to make this happen, don't do anything that is too out of character for you. You want him/her to like you, not some person that you invent to try and win him/her.

Touch him/her a little more. This does not mean that you should hang all over him/her. But try touching his/her arm now and then, or holding on for a few extra seconds before pulling out of a hug. You can gauge his/her reaction, and it may tell you what your chances are.

Just ask him! This is the scariest of all the options, because you are making yourself vulnerable. But if his/her answer is no, this will save you a lot of time and torture. And if his/her answer is yes, then you'll know right away!

Not every couple can escape Friend Zone, but lots of them do. Don't be afraid to try! If this one doesn't work, then try again with another person.


But don't try any of the above just for the purpose of time-pass, because it hurts a lot, when you break someone's heart. Its just like breaking a glass, when you break it your hand also bleeds.


With Love
Appu

Just Like That....

Aaj humko unki yaad bahut aa rahi hai,

sapne mein bass wo hi nazar aa rahe hai,

dil mein kuch ehsaas hain liye baithe hai,

kash hum unhe ye kahe sake ye sapne sanjoye baithe,

Jis taraf bhi dekho, yeh nazar unko dhoondhti hai,

dil mein armaano ki kashti gote kha rahe hai,

kuch kahena hai unko, kuch sunna hai unse,

par ye duri aaj samahj aa rahe hai,

aaj humko unki yaad bahut aa rahe hai.

-Appu :)

HRD NOTICE TO EMPLOYEES

Dear STAFF,

Please be advised that these are NEW rules and regulations implemented to raise the efficiency of our firm.

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1) TRANSPORTATION:

It is advised that you come to work driving a car according to your salary.

a) If we see you driving a Honda, we assume you are doing well financially and therefore you do not need a raise.

b) If you drive a 10 year old car or taking public transportation, we assume you must have lots of savings therefore you do not need a raise.

c) If you drive a Pickup, you are right where you need to be and therefore you do not need a raise.

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2) ANNUAL LEAVE :

Each employee will receive 104 Annual Leave days a year ( Wow! said 1 employee).

- They are called SATURDAYs AND SUNDAYs.

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3) LUNCH BREAK:

a) Skinny people get 30 minutes for lunch as they need to eat more so that they can look healthy.

b) Normal size people get 15 minutes for lunch to get a balanced meal to maintain their average figure.

c) Fat people get 5 minutes for lunch, because that's all the time needed to drink a Slim Fast and take a diet pill.

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4) SICK DAYS:

We will no longer accept a doctor Medical Cert as proof of sickness.

- If you are able to go to the doctor, you are able to come to work.

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5) SURGERY :

As long as you are an employee here, you need all your organs.

- You should not consider removing anything. We hired you intact.

- To have something removed constitutes a breach of employment.

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6) INTERNET USAGE :

All personal Internet usage will be recorded and charges will be deducted from your bonus (if any) and if we decide not to give you any, charges

will be deducted from your salary.

- Important Note: Charges applicable as Rs.20 per minute as we have 10MB connection.

Just for information, 73% of staff will not be entitled to any salary for next 3 months as their Internet charges have exceeded their 3 months salary.

Thank you for your loyalty to our company. We are here to provide a positive employment experience.

Therefore, all questions, comments, concerns, complaints, frustrations, irritations, aggravations, insinuations, allegations, accusations, contemplation, consternation and input should be directed somewhere else.

Best Regards,

HRD

Eleven Hints for Life

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Think about it?

1. We live in a nation where Rice is Rs.40/- per kg and Sim Card is free.

2. Pizza reaches home faster than Ambulance and Police.

3. Car loan @ 5% but education loan @ 12%.

4. Students with 45% get in elite institutions thruquota system and those with 90% get out because of merit.

5. Where a millionaire can buy a cricket teaminstead of donating the money to any charity. 2 IPLteams are auctioned at 3300 crores and we are still a poor country where people starve for 2 square meals per day.

6. Where the footwear, we wear, are sold in AC showrooms, but vegetables, that we eat, are sold on the footpath.

7. Where everybody wants to be famous but nobody wants to follow the path to be famous.

8. Assembly complex buildings are getting ready within one year while public transport bridges alone take several years to be completed.

9. Where we make lemon juices with artificial flavors and dish wash liquids with real lemon .

Think about it!

Sab China Hai...